Hey snodderly, Well, that is my suspicion. When he is real nice to me, I feel that it is due to guilt eating at him. I agree, he probably won't go to therapy.
What should I do? I have been cheerful and we haven't really argued like we used to in a while. I set boundaries. I feel at this moment that if he is seeing her I would like him to leave for being a liar. He had this big epiphany about us and made the big announcement to me, our priest and friends that he wanted to work on the marriage and things were good for one month then it went to hell after he sees her at work. It seems like we are stagnant. I am working on the marriage he is doing very little. He tells me to be patient while he figures things out in his head. I feel like putting a voice activated recorder in his car to find out. Because it's awful feeling like I am being deceived again.
