My boss' dad passed away a couple days ago. He used to work here and I became close to him. But over the years, after he retired, he's not been around much. Then he got sick and had to be cared for. Well, he gave up living and not in a bad way. His body just had enough, I think.
My wife knew him and I told her. She asked when the funeral was and I told her. That day she had plans with her man to go hiking. I was actually going to watch our daughter that night so my wife could stay at his house.
She just called and wants to go with me. She talked about canceling her plans with OM. She also asked if I was ok with us going together. I told her it doesn't bother me at all - sort of in a tone that says, "either way, I'm cool."
Am I wrong for allowing her to go with me? I mean, the weird thing is, she really wasn't that close to him. She knew him a little but not in such a way to cancel plans to go to his funeral. Or at least I wouldn't think so.
Me:42 W:43 M:03/08/98 SD17, D13 Found out about affair:12/16/10 Found out again: 06/22/12 Split: 06/22/12