I know Jack...i am just new to this whole process. I am still somewhat devestated from the whole situation and have a hard time thinking clearly. 7 weeks of little to no sleep has taken its toll on me. That coupled with the roller coaster ride i have been having it is so mentally draining.

I have started reading 5 love launguage last night due to a few people recommending it. One of the things that keep resignating in my head was she mentioned that we never complement each other or encourage each other. She also mentioned how me being critical to her and putting her down was very hurtful. I am almost positive that her love launguage is words of affirmation. I am going to make a collective effort when I am around her to try and complement her. I am not talking about "wow baby you are looking hot" I mean if she drops the kids off tell her "thank you for dropping the kids off I really appreciate it".


M:30
W:31
D:6&1
S:3
Married 9 years 8/8/2012
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Bomb Dropped: July 2012
Legally Separated: 8/3/2012