I know saying about the 60% second divorce rate was not the best thing to say but
Please do not fool yourself into validating bad behaviour. IF you KNOW then there is no BUT, all a BUT does is invalidate what you KNOW, weak people use it; and you don't seem weak to me.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK