"So if I can comment on our less than stellar relationship (or lack there of?) It seemed that last week we spoke to each other and genuinely talked and this week I feel like you and I are completely separate entities within the house, you do your thing and I do mine. While I understand that the situation is weird it feels like we’re strangers and that’s going to take some getting used to. Would you want to plan an IKEA trip on Sunday to get bunk beds and an additional bed? One twin bed mattress and one full mattress would also be necessary, and not exactly cheap. The couch thing just isn’t going to work. I wanted to outline finances as well this week and we have yet to sit down and discuss those items. Let me know your thoughts on this."
My suggestion:
"The situation does not work for me. I've explained to you that I love you and that I want this M to work. But I refuse to live in a open M, W. So, as things are now, of course we are going to have separate lives. As long as you are seeing and/or talking to OM, and as long as you are not willing to work on this M, we need to live separate lives. An open M, and pretending that our R is stellar, does not work for ME."
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
