All in all, it sounds like you are on the right path. I'm not an addiction expert, but I think Jack is right about minimizing your temptations.
I also agree with Jack on stop discussing R and D. You sound really needy and it's not attractive.
7 weeks is not very long. Your W doesn't trust that your changes are real yet. It's going to take a lot of time. As Cadet said, use that time...work on you. GAL...get out and do some stuff you have wanted to, work out, take the kids to the park, etc.
