I know its had an emotional impact on me. I'm sure its hit X as well. Last week was rough and I think I was just a little raw Tuesday when the glasses thing happened. X looked miserable Monday when I took the kids to her. I think me saying "no" and enforcing that boundary when she thought she would take them early (whenever she wants) impacted her.

Ill be OK

"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.