Im so sorry for your pain I dont have the answers, but I know we can hold our head up high you have done a good job letting go and hopefully son will see the light later continue on your road..be supportive of son and still make your boundries clear with him you love and support him, but his abuse is unacceptable If your consistant and consistant and consistant with this message to your son He will get the message..it takes time sometimes a lot of time-
as for OW and XH..I would totally ignore..not respaond in any way with words energies or thoughts let them Go in every way Karma will be take of them your only true business with them is to totally let go toatally let go get help if needed to let go and when we really let go sometimes, Ive seen miracles happen Wish u the best peace
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