My H does try, but only when I tell him. He's always saying, "give me some tips." WTF! S25 isn't a project, and I hate to tell H what my son has told me in confidence. But I do give him "tips" sometimes, when I think it appropriate. He tries, then stops when he doesn't see instant success. S25 is very sensitive where his dad is concerned. He feels they've never really connected, although I thought they did when he was a preteen. My H had a very awkward R with his dad. Neither of them tried. I always say to H, "S25 is a man now, you can't treat him like a little boy anymore." One day it'll sink in, I hope.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim