How to respond to this

[rubysgem]

Thanks everyone. I cried all weekend long. At some point the tears dried up and I decided I can't do this with him. I told him I will not be any part of his life as long as she is. I told him I will not compete with her. I said this has gone on too long now and he spends nights at her house and this is so degrading and disrespectful he may as well pee on our marriage certificate now. I told him he is always lighting me and giving me false hope then blowing me out and crushing my heart. I said I don't know what I will do but I need for him to just leave me alone now. He texted back that he is staying with his mom now (wow, first actual admission he lived with OW b/c he denied denied denied) and will give me a few days. I said while he was giving me space I wanted him to figure out how to answer a few quesions I have: 1) why tell me you love/miss/think of me? What am I supposed to do with that if you want to stay with OW? 2) Why did he continue to reach out to me when I clearly told him I was in a better place and if all he was going to do was the same thing he's been doing then just leave me alone? 3) why he can't just choose her and move on with his life and let me live mine? I said to please answer these with more than an "I don't know" and when we do finally talk (I am NOT ready to do so and may not be for a few weeks tho he figures a few days) I do not want a single mention of his "new relationship" this is about me and him not her. That if at any point he references her or their relationship the conversation is over and I am hanging up. I have been silent for days. He texted: how r u... I said... I will be fine but I can't do this right now. Please honor my request for space and time. I will contact you. Do not contact me until you hear from me first.