yes, SD.. LOVE the last few lines about how to handle the critical P....

i think your plan will disarm the criticisms...and not allow them to get bigger which is what I think our WAS' do to justify their actions...

it is their defense against the fear. it keeps them at a safe distance..

and by validating and then moving on confidently, perhaps she will feel safe to as well..

we are all pulling for you!!!! you sound so ready for this!! (((((((((((((((((( ))))))))))))))))

Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13