Total armchair psychology here but WTH! I think our Hs, being of the age they are think that their sons don't need as much from them as they get older because they didn't get that from their fathers.

And look how well they turned out.

I think there's also some shame involved.

Just call me Lucy (from Charlie Brown) The Doctor is out now!

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss