i agree completely NG. I think if i could go back to all of the times i hurt someone or felt hurt by someone, if i had the skills to look at the underlying causes, i would have seen a lot of fear of rejection, abandonment and not feeling loved/valued.

zig- i am in awe of you after reading your recent posts. and to echo NG...definietly honored to be a witness to your growth.

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TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home