Originally Posted By: zig
had to talk to s about a difficult issue tonight - and lo and behold - magic - i got it right and it didn't end in a disaster. how cool is that? and in fact - i got a bonus - even though it was upsetting to him, he felt calmed and reassured by me so much that at the end he was talking to me in a really loving voice. so new and different and wonderful.

so i have learned a few things along the way ;), in spite of all the pain

so worth it


So cool when we can connect with our kids in a positive and intimate way. Have a good day Zig!


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms