Update.

Date went brilliantly, had a fantastic evening and have arranged to see her on Friday.
Meanwhile, it was our wedding anniversary yesterday. I received a phone call from her about house insurance which I had paid. She then rang me back to say she needed proof of payment to send to them. I sent it to her and then later in the evening she rang back to say she had emailed them and then broke down in tears because of the anniversary, she hoped I was OK and I could call her back if not. I didn't know what to do. Here I am thinking it's all over bar the paperwork and then BAM. Now I feel bad because I've started dating again. I don't want to upset new girl because I really like her but it's still very early days. No idea where it's going. I felt terrible when I heard how upset W was but it was her choice and she's refused to even let me know where she lives let alone entertained counselling. I didn't contact her and now I'm feeling guilty because I feel at fault.
Very confused...