I have read both divorce busting and divorce remedy. I have started the detaching process but i have to admit having kids and seeing her 2-3 times a week makes this very hard especially when she is not being mean and acting nice to me.
I have been exercising for the last 3 weeks and this helps alot. Eating and sleeping have been difficult. I have lost 20+ pounds which is nice and am back to my premarriage wait but the sleeping....for the last 7 weeks I have been getting roughly 3-4 hours of sleep a night. As for GAL i am trying but most of my friends i have pushed away of the last 9 years and the few that I have are mutual friends with my wife and they all have kids so its hard to find things to do with them.
M:30 W:31 D:6&1 S:3 Married 9 years 8/8/2012 ILYBNILWY Bomb Dropped: July 2012 Legally Separated: 8/3/2012