IH Separation-continuing to grow as we grow apart

[breakdownbill]

Hi Cutter

Thanks for chipping in here.

I do not think that you can handle being away from your children , schooling and Divorce all at the same time.

I know I can't handle this all at the same time. After I got the bomb(s) I couldn't function for 2 months in the last year of my degree. I had to suck it up, get through it all & put a brave face for my kids & I still got a 1st class honours degree.

I would not choose to go through a D or separation whilst I am in the position I am in & the amount of work this course will demand.

I like the way you talk about being in limbo, it makes sense to me, because I am not pursuing my W, if anything I have let her go now because of her choices.

I see how I want my future to be, if my W doesn't want to commit to R after I get through this year, then I'll accept it & move on with my life.

No more limbo, just progress.