IH Separation-continuing to grow as we grow apart

[breakdownbill]

At the time I didn't want to press on with that conversation, she was clearly uncomfortable & I didn't think pressuring her would be the answer.

You are very quick to recognise that my W doesn't respect any boundaries, because there is not much I can do to enforce them right now.

I can tell you this though Bond, I'm not getting sucked into this anymore, discussing my R with my W will not do anything but speed up a process I am not ready for on a few levels.

I know what I have chosen to do, doesn't sit right with you, but I'm not you I'm me. I know what my priorities are and I also get what you are saying about sacraficing my self worth, I'm ensuring my future and my kids future by getting through this year & becoming a teacher. When that's done I will have my independence, my self respect and the means to back up any separation or D, which until I have attained, a R talk will not serve any purpose.

Once I have acheived this, I will be ready to move on with my life, without any fear and it will be a clear choice to make.

Right now isn't about my W, it's about me, my future and my kids. She has made her choice by continuing to see him and I have made mine.

If you don't want to support my actions, choices and plan that's fine, but right now I don't want to go down the road that you are suggesting.