Hi Paulie, I feel for you buddy. It’s very evident that you have outstanding morals and love your W very much. You come across as a man that “just wants to live a simple life”. Get married, and stay married the rest of your life and not have to deal with all the “emotional and complicated” issues that come with the territory. I really commend you for your work ethic, buying a home, 4 cars, etc...To be honest, I failed at being the financial rock, and while it's very commendable and I am working on being financially secure, I also relize that's not always what it takes to meet W's needs.
Listen Paulie, Bond has helped me a lot. There’s multipule vets on this board, I have a lot of respect for them and I value there input very much. All of them have a little bit different styles. I highly recommend hearing Mrbond out, he seems well suited for your sitch.
Bond, I must say, I haven’t seen you write this much in quite a while, it’s not the usual one or two liners I am accustom to. BTW, new movie is coming out soon? Anyway Paulie, I wanted to drop by your thread and let you know I understand how difficult this is, take care and God bless.
_________________________________ Freshman class of 2012 Me(M):38 W:43 Together: 14 Married: 11 D: 4 S:8 W wanted separation 5/5/12 Stopped living together 5/5/12
“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude”. Thomas Jefferson
