Bill.

You are only in limbo when you have no future.

You made the choice to concentrate on schooling for 9 months and take care of the kids.

You weighted the options at that time and decided what you knew yourself what you were strong enough to handle.

Quiet on the homefront , stiff upper lip and work on your future.

I do not think that you can handle being away from your children , schooling and Divorce all at the same time.

Maybe in a few months but not now.

As long as you see a future with you moving forward you are not in limbo.

Being in limbo is waiting around for your wife to pick you again for awhile.

What your doing now is difficult and if it gets to a point where you cannot handle it. Then go full swing in plan D and help her leave the home.

But do not ruin your schooling over this.

Your future will be fine as a single dad or as a married man with a wife who know's what she did and how it hurt you and your children.

Anything in-between is a waste of time or as we call it. Limbo.

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