Alien Invasion Pt 2

[reachingHigher]

I'm so excited for you! It's not everything you want in the end...but huge progress, no?

The "can it wait till morning"? reminds me of something I heard in the movie "hope springs" sort of. I'm so glad he didn't wait!

I like "do what works". You have been such an inspiration for me!

Responding to what you said on my thread. Yes, Chuck's experience with other couples like me & H tells him for me to support H and let him go. I decided (or am deciding) that if H never comes back, I'd still like to have him in the friendship mode with raising the boys than I would an adversarial position. Chuck said "his new found freedom may give him the desire to fall in love with you again". Or something like that.

I met a lady here that just got D last year and contested it and the judge ruled in her H's favor and she came out with NOTHING! Not even health insurance. She is terrified of her future life. (she is 58 years old)

Back to your sitch. I can't wait to hear the next update, but I fear the alien may not have moved out yet!