Denver thanks I'm meaning to read your sitch. I will give more info later. I'm suppose to meet w to talk further for dinner.

Married for 18 yrs w 3 kids (d17; s12; s3).

Anyway is it better to separate and work through her feelings? Or live in one roof and give her space? My deal breaker is if she continue with this EA that's where I draw the line. I will work on our marriage but she has to end EA.

Will post more later gotta go.

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.