Freedomland Ahead

[BeingMe]

I didn't respond to you, Braveheart, so I'll do so now (sorry, didn't see your post). As you can see, I did hear from him. No dangling R's, just a sad man trying to find himself. Yes, I know I was supposed to say, "come home, H" when he made the "homeless" comment. But, I didn't. I asked him twice during the summer if he wanted to reconcile and go to MC, or divorce. He chose divorce. I will never ask him again. And, finally, I chose to let him go, to beg him to go, almost. The world has lifted from my shoulders since he left. I'm not going to fall for the "poor me" attitude. When I asked him to leave the house, and find his own place, was when I was truly, honestly DONE. He has commented that his dating is not my business ... well, it isn't anymore. Not only isn't it my business ... I don't actually care. I'm not going to be his little wife to go home to while in Toronto he's separated. He can't have it both ways. I even unfriended him from FB. I don't care to know his business, except where our children and our finances are concerned. That is my business.

The terms I quoted above, was his too. I actually gave back some of what he wanted to give me. I know it's guilt driving this, so the quicker I get an official signature on the docs, the better.