If you are in a place where you are having these conversations with her, then I'd suggest that you merely validate her feelings. Don't offer and opinion or try to fix anything. Simply, "Yeah, I can understand that that would be tough." or something like that.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce