Glad to help....but it was something that when it clicked it really clicked. I spent so long thinking about how he's feeling, his fears, hurts, anger, etc. that I wasn't taking care of myself. And when you put yourself first it's like you can handle everything else
(disclaimer I am on my phone again)
I only logged on because I read my cainer for tomorrow and almost squealed Zig you have to read!!! It says well just read i hope it puts it in perspective.
Grace, I've started thinking of uncertain times as pivotal moments so if today is tough just think one day i'll look back on this because next anniversary will be different. I keep telling myself all of this is a transition and one day I'll look back and think if only I could have told 2012 Brit if only you knew then what you know now you wouldn't worry about a thing. I've never looked back and thought gee my life went to [censored] after that...no its always gotten better and it still will!
Love you ladies! Ps can you tell I'm delaying my next thread in the big d forum? (also am I the only one who hears big D and thinks something else? Yeah thought so!!!!!)