[quote] Acceptance is my favourite turtle. And the biggest lesson I've learned is to focus on me. If I'm focusing on h's new relationship then I won't ever have my own new relationship. If I'm focusing on what H is doing then I won't be focusing on what I'm doing new. If I focus on h's house/car/etc then I'm not thinking about myself. And it ll comes down to loving me and appreciating me. If all my concern and thoughts are on H and all of H's concern and focus is on H then who is concerned and focused on me? I owe it to myself.
Love this, Brit! So so true and just what i needed to hear today. I was driving home for lunch and feeling anxious inside related to W and the anniversary, and when I read this I realized that my anxiety was bc I was focused on wondering what W feels today, what she was doing... all things beyond any control of mine. when i read your words and refocused on me..the anxiety went away.. Thank you dear friend! Sorry to hijack Zig!
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
