What you are doing, and what I did, may be a woman's version of "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free"!
LOL Isnt that why things are so tough? While MWD gives a great set of guidelines and a roadmap for us to follow, its far from a cookie cutter one size fits all do exactly this method.
Im in the same boat in that I have probably according to some done too much for my wife since we split, I haven't given money but she's not gonna ask for that. What I have done is been responsible for all of our son's practices, games, getting his equipment bought etc. But im with Denver on this on, its a real 180 for me b/c in our marriage I was more likely to tell her what he needed and have her get it. And I was also not very likely to try to leave work early to get him to practice, she was mostly responsible for getting him places on time and i'd make sure and pick him up and bring him home.
Rough you've gotta do what you think is best while following as best you can the outline we've been given.
