Most importantly in your sitch, just have fun.

Rather than constantly thinking about the past and the problems with the R, spend time enjoying one another.

Maybe take her to a comedy club or an amusement park. Someplace where you can just have fun with each other.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER