letting go of expectations is more like taking bricks out of a wall, one by one, rather than being able to knock over the whole wall in one go. every time i think i've done it, i find some other expectation to eliminate.

Hi Vera, I really like this analogy. i think it describes detachment perfectly.

hope you are well (((((( )))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home