Originally Posted By: afa75
**Need input please

So this morning, I brought her a cup of coffee as usual. Just a nice friendly thing to do. So she asks, "Why are you doing this?" I reply, "Just being nice." So then she sighs, and says the following, "I'm sorry. I'm in a bad mood. OM is being a deuche (sp?). The posted picture on FB means a lot to him (or something to that effect). Exs are exs for a reason."

That gave me a little hope. Then I receive the following email at work. This is where I need the input please.

When you have a minute, can we outline this weekend please? I want to know what’s going on with the kids and if I can make plans Saturday evening or not. I also want to talk about next weekend and how we get back on track with the weekend schedule. Heading into a meeting.



Thanks for making my coffee in the morning. I appreciate that you do those things for me. I just wish things could be different.


Othen than replying to the weekend details...what do I reply if anything about "wish things could be different." ???


Don't reply at all. Doesn't need one. Let her think about her own statement.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce