Its interesting MrsD you talking about you didnt come to think you wanted him until the divorce was final and he moved on. I was thinking today maybe I shouldn't drag my feet at all, maybe I should agree to it and just continue doing the right things and if she comes back she comes back.....seems like a really scary way to go for me though, because what if she never does? I guess there's the possibility that I could drag my feet and waste alot of my and her money and she still divorces me and never comes back.
Im kind of lost on that right now, and I really have to stop worrying about it....as someone told me a few weeks ago here, I've really got to stop borrowing problems from tomorrow and worry about living today.
Oh how we are both in the same mindset and moods today! I feel 100% exactly the way you feel today. Especially after another rough night, but this time it was W's sister lashing out at my daughter & telling her that I have been manipulating the kids etc...Which isn't true of course. I have taken responsibility for my actions & have never candy coated it with the kids. But I have "NOT", I repeat "HAVE NOT" ever said anything harshly about their Mother to them. Including given the current situation of her and OM.
Way too much launched at my D-12 last night, but I will remain vigilent and in no way respond to her family members in this sitch, because nothing good will come of it. Not too mention God & the kids both know the truth on everything & know the mistakes I have made., as well as the whole truth about the current state of the situation & who's behavior is what.
