Hey Carnac- Thought I would stop by and say hi. I wanted you to know I am on the same page. You talk about no one wanting you, not being any good, worry yourself about “what if” she files, etc…. Don’t get me wrong, I hear you loud and clear. I have those same thoughts. On the bright side, I feel YOU have a fairly clear idea of the appropriate path to take. You’re a sharp man, it’s clearly evident from your posts. You seem to doubt yourself a lot but YOU have a fairly good idea which route to take. It makes sense, you’re probably confused right now, just like a lot of us (and our WAW’s).
Look, there’s another guy on this forum that Mr Bond was trying to give some guidance to. The guy was talking about having his house and 4 cars paid for. MrBond said, that doesn’t matter!!! It wasn’t the kind of love SHE was looking for, those were not the things that met HER needs. It got me thinking about your sitch. I know your proud of working for the same company 20 plus years and I commend you. That kind of stability is rare. I remember you mentioning W didn’t give a rats a!ss. I guess it comes back to my point, how does YOUR W want to be loved? From all the learning we’ve done, I am sure you have a better idea by now. Am I making sense? Do you agree? Talk to you later my friend. God bless.