Don't worry about their new version of history, its not worth your time. I got a couple of texts this morning from my son before he left for school.....he's so awesome and he texts me using her phone since he doesn't have one. (Im a mean dad, said he couldnt have a phone til his age ended in teen LOL) Anyway, i was just reading over the texts we sent back and forth this morning when I got back to work and really wanted to text her since I know she saw them all and tell her that he's such an awesome loving person and can't we find a way to work this out so we don't destroy his innocence.
I came to my sense's and didnt send her anything...she saw what he and I sent back and forth, she'll have her own thoughts about it and will have to come to it in her own time. Its interesting MrsD you talking about you didnt come to think you wanted him until the divorce was final and he moved on. I was thinking today maybe I shouldn't drag my feet at all, maybe I should agree to it and just continue doing the right things and if she comes back she comes back.....seems like a really scary way to go for me though, because what if she never does? I guess there's the possibility that I could drag my feet and waste alot of my and her money and she still divorces me and never comes back.
Im kind of lost on that right now, and I really have to stop worrying about it....as someone told me a few weeks ago here, I've really got to stop borrowing problems from tomorrow and worry about living today.
