[quote=BreakdownHow are they different in your mind? [/quote]

NC - no contact about anything but our son.
Detaching - still contact, but not having emotions attached to it. And that is where Im having issues because I am still attaching and reading into things more than not. So I guess I answered my own question.

I need to NC for now, except when dealing with C. Thanks!

M:43/ H:39
T:12/ M:9
S8, D15
M affair(one night): 2/09
M EA: 2/12-7/12
D:6/7/12
H: GF since 7/24/12

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