Divorced #4

[Mrs D]

Arsene,
Its kinda surreal you wrote that I should never email/text/etc out of anger. I have to tell you, I wrote the text and gave my phone to my GF to read. I dont know if I really had any intentions of sending it - especially the part "going to laugh when they failed". Cause after she read it, I said I dont think Im sending that. She said - I already did. So. I took the fall for that one..

So - here is my question, because I really AM confused. Am I supposed to NC or am I just supposed to detach? Im getting conflicting things to do in this sitch. Bond and KD think I should detach, do the little things sparingly. Everyone else thinks I should just NC. I just want to do the right thing.