so pleased to read your posts and hear about so much progress with your w.
it makes my heart warm up and smile
(((( ))))
just wanted to point out - your posts are ALOT about where your w is at and her responses and what you are all doing for her - which is as it should be - definitely coaxing the wild cat back in.
but i would love to hear about YOU - are you still making sure that you are working on yourself, focusing on filling your tank from other sources and not totally depending on your wife's little offerings to keep you in a good place.
it's easy fro us to feel so good with progress that we become sort of dependent on it only. so i just want to make sure that you are aware of that part of the slope for yourself.
i'm noticing more and more, that in the letting go for a certain thing to happen, it seems to start happening then - and somehow your letting go of the financial stuff in even a small way, seemed to allow space for this other progress - i keep wanting to say how glad i am that things are moving for you guys - over and over.
big hugs
and hope you all have a wonderful week
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"