I think what Arsene said captured alot of why I would drag my feet....it will give me the time needed to heal and at the same time it will force her to wait a bit and see if her mind changes....if she does, then great. If she doesn't, then what has been lost by waiting another 15 months to divorce? In my mind nothing is lost in that time b/c ill be doing exactly what I would hope to be doing if we were actually divorced....being a great dad, improving me and helping others.
