I guess you would have my blessing??? What a mind fu!ck. It's such a stupid sentence, but whatever. Why do you ask?
Yeah, W told me something like this as well. I often wonder if she really means it or if it's just some kind of "reverse psychology" statement. If we know we can, we're less likely to go for the forbidden fruit, right (it wouldn't be forbidden anymore).
I remember two years ago, just after I found out about her EA and we were working on rebuilding our relationship. It was still a rocky roller-coaster mindF@ck when we were good for a few days and threatening to leave each other for a few days. I was waiting for her outside a bar where she sang and a prostitute approached me. I kindly told her I was waiting for my wife and she commented on how lucky my W was and she stopped putting the moves on me and just started chatting (I am a foreigner and people are always curious about me). My W came out of the bar, saw the girl, walked straight to her and physically (an violently)pushed her away telling her to stay the F@ck away from her husband. The prostitute simply walked away. I was shocked. I didn't comment.
I don't know now, though. We have been separated for 3 months and she seems to be doing well with OM. Would she still feel the same way?
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
