Last night I asked exw for the title of the car as per the divorce order, I asked that she sign and not date cause the insurance people are not sure how it works. The state gives u 7 days to do the transfer. She said no and won't give it to me till she gets the money for the house. I said that that was out of my control and she should have in a few days. Why would I be slowing that? It will be over soon. Good Lord
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
When you're going through a divorce - trust usually goes right out the window. Both parties think they're going to get screwed over and every single thing seems to have some motive attached to it.
Choose your battles. Be firm on the things that are absolutely necessary and negotiate that which isn't.
It will all change soon. And it will all work out.
You so right Barb hate to admit it but I have been having trust issues. I'm not like that usually. I had the insurance man call her and educate her. She signed the title over. Told her we should be closing on the house in a week so she can move. She stopped smiling.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Welcome Brit. See u been busy on your thread already. Lol
W has been packing and throwing stuff away. It kind of bothers me because I don't know what she is throwing away. I have never been attached to any material things so it's not time to start now. That I keep telling myself. I know she is not a mean and spiteful person so I have to stop worrying. Right now I have 4 things left to do. Get her off my health insurance, cancel her phone/email, finish switching the car into my name, and close on the house. It took 3 days to get car insurance. How silly?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
So much "housekeeping" stuff to do, you will get it all done hope it doesn't stress you out too much. Worrying about what she's taking might be a need to control. I remember being worried about what H was taking and then later thinking was I really concerned about a souvinier beach towel?
Me cause a stir? What ever do you mean? LOL after my initial bull in a china shop approach i'm hoping to blend in in my new forum home.
