(I sure wish we could EDIT our posts...we used to be able to. I never understood that change, Moderator??)
I MEANT to say
Your wife needs to see a whole lot more of the "new" you and for a lot longer than whatever it has been, before you
suggest withdrawing it.
Yes I can see setting the boundary and all that. I get it!
But withdrawing yourself or your loving ways, isn't really an option that can ever sound good since you have a child together. More important atm, though, is that you are getting ahead of yourself. BE HERE NOW.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016