Unless you have been served a legal document with a do this or suffer this... signed JUDGE
Has not been legal or signed by Judge...Just draft by her attorney for review & revision. This was told to me by Divorce Court Clerk & L that I consulted with.
You can take your time. You do not have to follow her timeline. It is your divorce that you are working on. So get the t's crossed and the i's dotted by someone who knows the in's and out's of your states divorce laws.
Not 100% on divorce laws & am very intelligent to things...But as example Sister lives in same state & has been going through paperwork changes with H for 19 months now.
If that takes an extra month to get the funds to go over it so be it.
Tell her they are being reviewed. And you will get back to her when it is done.
Short & sweet & to the point! She hasn't pushed me on them until last night after lashing episode to me and kids at house...Then text about 5 minutes after she left stating: "You NEED to give me a response/changes if any to the papers"
If she presses, state that yes you are seeking legal council to make sure that you both are getting as fair a shake as possible as there are 4 of you that are affected by this piece of paper.
Agree, I just know that attitudes & moods can change on a dime! And after her being confronted with Om & in front of me and kids, emotions have taken turn for worse presently...But we all know these things are volatile & change sometimes hourly
