Great advice all around. Carnac, that's the way I see it as well. We need to give them time whether they want it or not at this point. if in a few years they still feel the same, at least we will be in a different place emotionally and we'll be better able to cope with it. In the end, they can always divorce later. Getting back together after a divorce might be a bit more difficult.

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then