Yes she is the GF. So. Am I supposed to stop wanting to make things right and not want to be with him because shes in the picture?

In all honesty Labug, if I were said GF and I thought there a chance a marriage and family could be saved? Darned right I would back out so they could try again. Especially if Id have been seeing him 7 weeks compared to 12 years.

But I also know he isnt in that place. Yet. And he might never be. But Ill still be doing what I need to do to make myself a better person. And yes. In hopes what once was my marriage could be saved.

M:43/ H:39
T:12/ M:9
S8, D15
M affair(one night): 2/09
M EA: 2/12-7/12
D:6/7/12
H: GF since 7/24/12

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