Ok. So I shouldn't be NCing but detaching again as I was before. But keep it tucked inside me. (Dont get all emotional) and not so often so that it doesnt look as if Im pursuing again?
Not sure! You have to have NC when you feel your emotions are in check, but IMO if contact at certain time is being reciprocated in a somewhat positive way, then go with it.
Just stop with the gentle embraces & whatnot, so that he knows you care but aren't going to get touchy feely etc. He does technically have OW in picture right now, which my guess is pretty stress free as they are kind of in that euphoric Hollywood stage. I think Hollywood romance & euphoria is horse crap, but I think romance needs to be maintained throughout a M...Something I really screwed the pooch on when I went through my dark stage 7 totally became a selfish prick to be around.
We didnt have much romance either. And we didnt really make time for ourselves. We lost "us" through having our kids, work... life. Heck we didnt even take a honeymoon, and I heard he wanted to take her to Mexico!! Im like REALLY???? I think it was just something to make me jealous again. Who knows.
M:43/ H:39 T:12/ M:9 S8, D15 M affair(one night): 2/09 M EA: 2/12-7/12 D:6/7/12 H: GF since 7/24/12
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