Oops, I missed one of your comments MrB, where you provided an overview of WAS and MLC. I was thinking my W was a MLC because she thrives on chaos, and this June was the first calm month (she's a teacher); and she had said that she questioned all of our choices (eg houses, children, getting married to me at a young age), so that's what prompted me to go in the MLC direction. However based on her recent disclosure of often looking for an "escape" maybe she is more the WAS type. Heck I don't know. I'll definitely look up those authors and see if they can shed any light. Thanks again and feel free to add input as you see fit. Side note: I'm down from more than a pack and a half of cogs to just under a pack for today. That's a positive for me.
