hi lilly, sorry you've been alone a while. i think it's good you've found meds to help. that anxiety can be crippling. i had to get some, too. it really makes a difference and keeps me from feeling out of control.

i would wait on the new MC with H, also. that rehashing the past is not good at all. the problems need to be identified but the solutions are the goal. rehashing leads to blame and anger.

compromise is essential.

with your new peace of mind, it must be easier for you to GAL. what have you been doing?


M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing