Unless you have been served a legal document with a do this or suffer this... signed JUDGE
You can take your time. You do not have to follow her timeline. It is your divorce that you are working on. So get the t's crossed and the i's dotted by someone who knows the in's and out's of your states divorce laws.
If that takes an extra month to get the funds to go over it so be it.
Tell her they are being reviewed. And you will get back to her when it is done.
If she presses state that yes you are seeking legal council to make sure that you both are getting as fair a shake as possible as there are 4 of you that are affected by this piece of paper.
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