I agree that I should find out what's going on, what's happening with the OM.

You see the money side of things is already tied up. I'm in my final year before I qualify as a teacher, I can't afford to live anywhere else while I'm doing the course and I can't afford a divorce.

We haven't had any physical contact in 2 months, I stopped initiating anything because I wanted to stay detached and not get dragged back into limbo.

My W has not initiated anything either.

What's your thinking on this?


Me 34 W 32
D 9 S 6
M: 9 years
T: 12
Bomb: 02/11/12
EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing
Moved out: Oct 2012
Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13

Don't just GAL, find yourself and be happy