I agree with LITB and JB. I also agree with Chatter.
Another idea may be to tell her that you are trying to save the money to have an attorney review that paperwork. That you don't feel comfortable doing without a lawyer's input. This would buy you more time, hopefully put the paperwork on the backburner for a while longer, and also put your W on notice that you aren't going to just go along with her plan to D you.
Kinda thinking out loud, but I think that I would consider that ^^.
Not so sure about telling her I want an attorney to review...I would have to think about that one...But I do think you are right & that it would send the statement of not going along with her plan.
Although she knows where I stand on our M, and she knows that I don't want this...I just don't repeat it anymore to her. I still wear my ring & never stopped, not that she notices, but I am sure they both noticed Saturday at the store.
I'm kind of in a hard place financially to come up with this, unless I stop paying the kids private school tuition...And I will by no means take that away from them. They love their school, teachers, & friends. Not to mention they do great academically there. Oh yeah, plus she works there now...Which I think is great, because she has always been a great teacher (which people always praised her for).
