I think chatter had a good suggestion of texting her back saying you are reviewing the papers.
Can you have a L at least look the papers over at an hourly rate to make sure everything's on the level? It may be best to at least have this done before you sign anything.
Even if you get back to her with revisions, this could still go through a few interations before anything gets filed.
What is more of a 180 for you? If you stall, will it be more of the same for you, i.e. the old suppo? If you get back to her with revisions, perhaps it will show some cooperation and take the focus off you as being the problem.
I totally understand wanting to go after the OM, but it's unlikely anything good would come out of it.
Yes I could probably have L look over paperwork...It is in pretty laymen terms & I can decipher, so not too hard...I am very smart guy, which she always found attractive too...LoL
I agree on a few revisions part...I think that is why she wanted to kind of go through the semi-mediation process & keep it out of the courts...Not too mention the cost savings on both of us!
In the past I was pretty resilient & would set my mind to something and follow through! Never really been a procrastinator with anything (other than a few fixer uppers around house). Stalling has never been my style & she knows this (although when she first gave them to me, she said that she knows where I stand & said that I would most likely take my time before getting back to her). In my defense I have been traveling & quite busy, so it hasn't been first priority. So I guess you could say stalling would be a 180.
I also agree with just giving her the initial revision to take back & have redrafted, then looking over them again to see how much was changed & agreed upon...Then revising again etc. She knows that I am a fighter (not vindictively) & truly knows that I wouldn't agree to everything. It would definitely show cooperation, but Denver said awhile back that it would also state that I am giving in & giving up on the M...So I am slightly confused???
